STAGES OF LIFE(Stage 3)/ Midlife...

MIDLIFE or MATURE ADULTHOOD

                                  In this stage, the responsibilities of a person increases. In this stages, a person will find itself confronted with many different challenges, among them, coping and financial pressures. The person might want to find a home & partner. The person might be independent at this stage but along with this he will get many difficulties/ challenges to survive and living a better life. He/she has to work very hard to live a successful life.Slowly but surely, the time to settle down starts to approach. Wishes of independence, exploration, and freedom are now replaced by the wish to start a family. It marks a stage during which we pick up a great number of responsibilities, not only for ourselves but also for other. This stage plays a very important role in an adult's life. It is because the person repeat the life cycle, by having children of their own. The full focus of the person is then on the growth and development of another life.

                       The major turning point in this stage is, when the children begin to leave the nest. Until this point, the individual has followed the destined path scripted by society. The

individual was born, grew up, was educated, found a job, settled down and started a family. But now, for the very first time, the individual is confronted with a new situation. The obligations and responsibilities placed by society upon them start to decrease. The individual has entered the stage of midlife. Every individual's character, nature, behavior are different in this stage.

                        In stage 2, a person explore the world and confronted us with our limitations and fears. At the beginning of Stage 3, we have ripened and are calmer. In this stage, One can have much better understanding skills. People have also gained many insights about their limited abilities in certain areas. Based upon this knowledge they start making some significant changes in life. 

                      But, during the 3rd stage, a great shift in focus takes place. People place their concentration upon that which is important to them while allowing the rest to leave their life. Their patience with time-wasting activities and energy-draining friends decreases . It’s a stage where many of these mindless hobbies and shady friends leave, never to be seen again.

                      Instead of having countless time-wasting activities on their mind, they nurture the hobbies and relationships that are really important to them. The pursuit of their  dreams has become more important to you than anything else. This stage of life is centered around the creation of your legacy. You will strive to make the most of your life by living up to your full potential.

                     At this stage, People feel old, worn out and come to the realization that they’ve accomplished everything they could accomplish in their life.

                    At this stage many people feel victorious, because they achieved that thing, they actually wanted. But in middle age, people feel tired, drowsy, weak, etc. In this age, along with duties one has to take care of himself/herself by doing exercise (which bring physical fitness), sharing problems or feelings to that the loving person (which makes the mental stress less) etc. to live a peaceful life." Allow your midlife to be a time of creative change. Although it may be painful at first, it can be your greatest opportunity for having the life you want or gaining a sense of peace".